Rumor has it that we got hitched? We sure did! SURPRISE! :) Were we planning on getting married in Hawaii? Nope...
So- due to overwhelming responses of wanting an explanation and knowing all of the details of how it all went down, here it is:
Dan and I were actually planning on getting married sometime in the fall of 2011. We knew we weren't going to have an actual wedding because truth be told, I've never wanted to have a wedding- I've always known that I was going to go to elope somewhere. Don't get me wrong, I think weddings are romantic and all, but the stress and the chaos is just not for me. I'll pass... Anywho- back to fall of 2011. We were planning on getting married in Australia. Why Australia? I've always wanted to go there. It's one of my dream destinations and what better way to visit there than to visit it with the one you love and get married! Obviously, things change.
Last Christmas, (2009) my family had given us a trip to Hawaii as our Christmas presents for Christmas of 2010, which leads to the point of why we were going to Hawaii in the first place.
It was the Tuesday before Thanksgiving and we were getting ready to close on our house. We were driving home from my mom's house when I mentioned the idea of "maybe we should just get married in Hawaii".(After all, people had been telling us like crazy that we should but I don't like being told what to do so that automatically singled that idea out of the picture) Dan didn't respond right away and contemplated my offer; after which he responded "should we?" Not going to lie, my heart skipped a beat because I didn't think he would go for it. It was then and there late at night we decided we were getting married and were going to tell my family the next day. Of course they were ecstatic! On top of this, we also decided we weren't going to tell anyone. Why is this? It's caused quite a stir... Given what December hit me with, the LAST thing I wanted was to start a ruckus. I also decided not to tell anyone because I knew out of the hundreds of people that would hear, some were bound to be upset, why not just upset everyone at the same time and deal with it when I get back?! Worked like a charm to say the least...
On Friday, my wedding coordinator got in contact with me, (I had emailed him on Wednesday to get the ball rolling) and within 30 minutes on the phone, we had my entire wedding planned out and I didn't talk to him again until the wedding day. It was great, and not to mention completely stress free.
Not even 4 days later, I went on the hunt for my dress. My cousin Holly came with me- I let her in on everything because she was coming to Hawaii with us and I didn't want to do it alone. We went to a dress shop and within a few gowns, I thought I had found the dress. I tried to put it on hold for my mom to see a few days later since she was out of town but they wouldn't hold it, which makes perfect sense.... but I decided to risk it and just hope it was there on Monday. Even though I thought I found my dress, we decided to try one more dress shop just for fun. I only had to try on 3 or so until I FELL IN LOVE! I didn't fell near as beautiful in the other dress as I did in this one.
This was taken at the dress shop so I could send it to my mom to see what she thought.
My dress was a breeze. I got it straight off the rack and didn't need any alterations, it fit like a glove. I did have my train pinned however so I had to go without for a few days.
Three weeks passed, our secret had slowly began to leak out but I finally reached a point that I really did not care who found out and what they thought, I was just happy to be getting married.
We left to Hawaii on Christmas Eve. Dan had to fly in separate from me and arrived on the 23rd since we booked his tickets a different way. It was beautiful there as always!
We got SO lucky! We managed to go right during the rainiest season and it rained everyday we were there except our wedding day! The weather was perfect!
I had full intensions of just wearing my hair down and straight despite having my wedding coordinator tell me not to because it was so windy. BUT- Dan and I went and checked out the beach the day before and there was NO way my hair would have survived that wind. Luckily my mom was able to help resolve that problem and helped me pull it up!
This is when we first got there. All of the boys had already driven down separately and were waiting on the beach. We were old school and I didn't let Dan see me that day up until the beach.
They took Dan down to the beach and he had to face the ocean and wasn't able to turn around.
This was the behind the scenes chaos that Dan did not have to witness.
Finally everyone was situated and Chris walked me down the beach. (That sounds kind of funny :) but not many people can say it)
Dan was able to turn around when I was right behind him. The look on his face was priceless!
Notice how Paytie was just playing in the ocean while we were getting married? She could care less.
The Lei exchange
The vows we had to say with our rings were beautiful! I will always remember them!
These are all of the boys that were in Hawaii with us. From left to right:
My uncle Mark, my brother Carson, my step dad Chris, Dan, My sister's boyfriend Chance, and my cousin's husband Sean.
These are the girls, from left to right:
My cousin Holly, my sister Jordan, my mom Kelly, me, my little cousin Kylee, my little sister Payton, Dan's mom Remy, my aunt Sharon, and my cousin Angie.
Family photos
And the rest is history. I still can't believe all of this. I'm honestly on cloud 9. There really are no words to describe that feeling I felt that day. It's a feeling of endless love, happiness, excitement, and so much more all crammed into one.
As I mentioned before, my December was a little rough. It took a special person to deal with all of my crying, sobbing, screaming, and yelling. But I've found someone who comforts me when I cry, holds me when I sob, listens to when I'm screaming, and calms me down when I'm yelling. (Dramatic...I know. I DO have a side nobody sees) I've married my true best friend and I can't believe how happy I am. I also need to reach out and say thank you to all of our friends and family! It's amazing the outpour of love we've received from so many people that care. We truly are lucky to be surrounded by so many awesome people!
On one more side now, I cannot wait for the professional pictures! These were taken from my sister, aunt, and cousin's camera and I already love them!